'tis the season....to be jolly

Or in our case, 'tis the season to be SICK!  Man oh man, have we been hit around here.  It all started about a week and a half ago....went through all of us in a big way and then hit Mom (Jeanette) and Katie Christmas night.  Not exactly what they had in mind after travelling up here to be with us all at Christmas.  Thankfully, they are on the mend.  Katie, in fact, is excited to actually 'get ready' today and eagerly ate food without worry.  Phew!  Mom, on the other hand, not quite there yet but close.

My birthday came around again....39 years old!  Thirty nine.  3 and a 9.  Hm, no matter how it's looked at...it's hard to imagine that in just one year, I will be entering my 5th decade.  I'm creeping up that hill...and I plan to keep it at just that.  A slow, crawling creep.  hahaha....really though, I don't feel any different.  It is what it is....nothing a little plastic surgery can't cure!!!  Okay, okay...Kidding!! ;0)

Christmas was wonderful (better only if Syd were here)....we had a house full - even managed to sleep 15 bodies!   The boys are just so excited having so much family around us.  It's been just fabulous!

And now, Santa has come and gone.....and same with the leftovers.  The house is turned upside down from the toys and the traffic.  But that is okay, we will get to it.  It just feels so good to watch my happy boys....it feels good to have this week off to do as we please....it feels good to feel good....and best of all, it feels good to be so blessed with so much.

'tis the season

Every day I think how I need to sit and write something.  And now, geesh, almost a month later, I am here.  I will say one of my resolutions this year is to be more consistent with writing.  Wait, didn't I say that last year??  Hm.  Well, I can only try.

So, here we are - Christmas time!!!!  Like everyone else, it's been busy around here. But I must say, I don't feel any of the usual stresses this year.  Do I have alot to do yet?  Absolutely....but it will all come together.  I'm just truly enjoying this time with my family and friends.

Nicholas had his Christmas concert a little while ago....it was really cute.  We had been practicing with him and he knew his songs well along with the moves.  Of course, once they are up on the stage, the moves and the words don't seem to come as easily but it really was so enjoyable to watch the little 4 and 5 year olds perform.  Nicholas' class did The Gingerbread Man and Rudolph ... and at the end of the concert, all classes sang Frosty the Snowman.  Adorable!

Also, something I meant to write about earlier was our parent-teacher interview with Mrs. Cole-Campbell.  This year, they started a new format.  Instead of the usual, parents sitting down with the teacher meeting....they had six activity tables set up.  We arrived at our chosen time and Nicholas took us around to each activity and went through it all with explanation as well.  We were given a booklet with what to watch for and make our comments.  Johnathon and I really enjoyed it...was a great opportunity to see what exactly they are learning and Nicholas did very well.  He struggles a little with writing sentences or sounding out some words....and by that, I means he gets frustrated but we are working on it.  Afterwards, we then sat with the teacher.  Mrs. Cole-Campbell is perfectly suited to being a SK teacher...she is truly wonderful and has such a great way with Nicholas.  And then when Nicholas wasn't looking...she whispered to me that Nicholas is Very Bright with a big smile.  And, of course, this gave me a big smile!

This is all going to be a mixed bag of updates really....

Last weekend was our annual Christmas get together...was alot of fun and so good to see everyone!  I've included a pic of  Debra and Madeleine, above, who we haven't seen in way too long. 

Shane is now on my lap....this small post has taken me about two hours to write...between entertaining Shane and nursing my sick Nicholas.  Yep, left work a little early Friday to pick up the boys - Nicholas had thrown up 4 times in about an hour.  So, he has been resting all weekend and he seems to be doing alot better today. Fingers crossed for a healthy Christmas!!!

goings on

I didn't even look at my last post, all but the date so I think when I last wrote, I was getting over my sickie days and feeling horribly.  Shane and I have not been able to kick our bugs, however his is mostly the forever running nose and a cough.  I feel decent for a couple days and then some looming wannabe new headcold takes over, such as right now.  Getting used to it, trying hard not to complain....but really, COME ON!  Enough already!  (I so don't like that phrase but there it is anyway).

Once we were feeling better enough to do something fun as a family, we headed to the Toronto Zoo.  I LOVE the zoo so was very excited to get the boys there and check out all the animals, especially with Shane starting (trying) to say some of the animals names.  He just seemed to love it....was completely mesmerized by all of them.  Nicholas had fun too but after a few hours, was really done and tired.  Can't say I blame him, I think we all felt that way except Shaney who had the luxury of being pushed around when he didn't want to walk.  All in all, a great day and this time of year is just perfect for the zoo....no crowds, free parking and all the animals out and about.  Now that I am writing this, I think I did write about our trip last post...but just in case, repeat.

The week following that was absolutely full of Nicholas counting down the final moments until Syds arrival. This is a boy who just loves his big sister so completely.  We were all able to meet him at school the day Syd flew up to surprise him....and he was thrilled of course!  It was a short visit, for the US Thanksgiving holiday.  I had full intentions of making a holiday dinner but there really was just not enough time.  So off to good old Teddys for turkey dinner and then Syd and I did some power shopping aftewards.  We would have loved to shop longer but we needed to get back to pick Nicholas up at Beavers...again, he was thrilled to be picked up by Sydney.  And Mommy was happy that Nicholas actually came out and said he had a super time.  He hasn't been taking to Beavers very well but he seems to be coming around.....I think it's because they talked about badges...Finally.

Johnathon was able to take the time off while Sydney was here....Friday, Syd and Daddy had a date at the movies and a late lunch....then afterwards, they picked up Nicholas once again at school and they went to the ice cream shop...yum!

We didn't do a whole lot more other than just enjoy our time together.  I did make arrangements to have family photos done on Saturday....something the kids (and hubby) always thoroughly enjoy.....lol!  It went better than expected and I have seen a few shots but once we get the proofs, I will absolutely post some.  At the end of the session, the photographer asked to take a few more of Shane because he was just so "gosh darn cute"....and Nicholas was like why is she saying that about Shane.  He then proceeded to say "I am the cute one"!  It was hilarious the way it was said. 

This morning was a difficult one saying our good-byes.  Nicholas especially was so sad.  He bawled and bawled saying good bye.  Of course, this just increased my tears so we had a good snuggle and  thankfully, Jack was here so he had a distraction.  And now, the house, like it does every time Syd leaves, feels like we are missing something....and we sure are - we are missing our Sydney.

i'm back baby!

As alot of you already know, we have been dealing with sickness over here.  And let me first say that we are all well....ALL of us ALL  at once! 

Shane's fevers and head cold are over with - phew!!!!.....which is what I had originally thought I picked up and was ignorant to it....let it go....only to end up with a viral infection in my chest and some wicked headaches and pain in my sinuses and eyes.  And that is all I want to re-tell.  It is done, over with...and this makes one Mommy very happy. 

In other ways, this week has been a difficult one.  Our dear friend, Scott, lost his mom to cancer last weekend.  I don't have any words that seem fitting enough but Scott, you and your family are surrounded by people that love you and as you know, Johnathon and I are always here for you....for any reason.  Rest in peace Sandra.

Hallo-weenie...

(okay...so I meant to post this last night but didn't get a chance to add pics so this is a day late..)

Another week gone by.....whoosh....actually, another month gone by.....just like that!  Which only brings us closer to one of the best times of year, Christmas!  Now that Halloween has come and gone (yay!), almost time to get out the decorations and get the season started!!  Yay!!

Not a big fan of Halloween....I mean now that I am a mother, I do enjoy the little ones dressed up in their costumes and the excitement they exude BUT to be honest, if I didn't have them, wouldn't care much one way or the other.  Yep, I guess I'm a Halloween Scrooge....hm, wonder what the proper term is.  Halloweenie perhaps!!  Hehe...Hallo-weenie....that is me.

This past weekend was wonderful...I just LOVED having almost my whole family with us from Friday to Sunday....with Mom and Dad still with us until tomorrow.  Friday night we took the family out for Mom's 60th birthday.  The six of us (Mom, Dad, Shawn, Cheryl, J and I) went to The Keg for a really great dinner and some drinks.  Vicki was gracious enough to come to the house and watch our four rugrats so that we could go out and enjoy a nice adult dinner.  Afterwards, back to the house where some good friends and family helped us celebrate the occasion.  It really turned out to be a great night....for my great Mom!

Saturday, of course, was Halloween.  Johnathon, Cheryl and I start getting the kids' costumes on only to find that the costume I picked up for Shane was not going to fit.  So, we took off the heavy sweater underneath...and nope!  Not going to happen unless we let him walk around all wedgy-lion like!!  Thank goodness for Cheryl offering to switch up the little ones' costumes so in the end, all worked out well.  Phew!  And didn't they look great!!  It was the first time that all four boys went out together.  It was fun...I hope we can do the same next year. 

Unfortunately, not too long after we finished up trick or treating, Shane came down with a bit of a fever....and it's been off and on now ever since.  Poor little munchkin.  I know he is doing alright though...the medicine is certainly working.  Even though you can see it in his eyes, he is still running around the house, still giving us lots of big smiles and giggles....he didn't even nap yesterday after we tried for over an hour (Very unusual).  Thankfully, the boys were able to stay home today with Goki.  I even let Nicholas play hooky so that he could spend a day with Popa and Goki before they leave tomorrow.  Don't think I have to tell you that he was more than thrilled!

Minus Shanes' cold and fever, it was a great weekend.  Oh...and just to add....three games of Phase 10 and guess who won them all????!!!  That's right my friends....that's right!

mondays

Had a wonderful nights sleep, 8 hours even.  However, I just woke up 'on the wrong side of the bed' I guess.  Did not.....at all....want to get out of our fabulously comfy bed.  But work won and I was up and absolutely not raring to go.  And then Nicholas came in as he does most mornings as I'm getting ready....curled up under our covers and who doesn't just want to jump in and snuggle up with their munchkins and just be?  And I did steal a few moments....as I always do.  And then continued on....and Nicholas and I were able to chat away while doing the morning 'rush'.  Shaney was in the best of moods when Nicholas and I went in to get him up.  Jumped right up....again flashing his dimply smiles and thankfully, cooperated getting dressed, teeth brushed, bundled up and out the door.

But it was after that....driving to work....thinking about the day ahead.....the morning I left behind, my munchkins I left behind at daycare.  And well, that just made me edgy....somewhat grumpy and very Monday-like. 

And so, the day continued on....my mind not into my work....wishing I was the one there to wipe Shane's dripping nose from his cold....take Nicholas to school.

I probaly had some wishing they hadn't dropped by my office or I didn't drop by theirs....or sorry - our cubbies....as I went on and on.  Ugh...I almost can't stand listening to myself right now!!!  hehe.

The life of a working Mom, I suppose. 

Johnathon is working today which kind of makes our Sunday not quite feel like Sunday. No family snuggles, tickle fights and wrestling around on the bed. However, it was nice to have company this morning - Shawn, Cheryl and our nephews spent the night. I love when all the boys are all together... when we are all together.

Nicholas was up quite early....happy to have Jack here. Shane slept in, thankfully. I guess it was about 10 minutes before 9 when I went into his room and there he was just snuggled up, looking at me with that big beautiful, dimpled smile....just waiting I suppose. Since he has been in his new big boy bed, he will not get out of it until we come get him. I know....it is quite amazing. And now that I wrote that, I'm afraid it will change. Touching wood, touching wood. So, I jumped into his bed beside him for a yummy snuggle and whoa....it was very wet. Poor thing....just happily resting in his bed even though he was soaking wet...his sheet was soaking wet. Which was odd....his diapers these days are pretty much bone dry when he gets up (yes, I know...get the potty out!).

Anyhow, I guess I just was writing all that to point out just how perfect mornings are when you have that sunshine from your munchkins to start your days off.

Now saying that....as I am writing this, Shane is actually in full on fuss mode. Fussing just to fuss.....which means nap time. Nicholas just said to me Shane is the master of poo and fussing.....hehehe.


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I'm back....fresh sheets on, book read and he's down. Nap time. And my other son, as politely as he could, opted for some Wii time over cuddling with Mommy to watch some tv. He did say though, he would love to after some Wii time.

So, I'm going to take this opportunity to throw some more laundry on and then dive into my new book and just chill for a while.

(oh, and I had to post this pic of the boys wrestling on our bed....they are just too hilarious now with this. And Shane is right in there with the moves...too funny!)

Happy Thanksgiving to All

Not that I need to wait until Thanksgiving comes and let all of you know how much I am thankful for you...each and every one of you...but it is always a time that we all reflect and realize all of our gifts. And I know for me, my true gifts are my family and friends. I wish I saw more of you...I truly do. But, even though some visits may be infrequent...and some becoming more so, those feelings never fade. Thankfully.


Our Thanksgiving this year was spent in Parry Sound at a cottage my parents rented for the family. Mom and Dad have a trailer that they spend alot of time at in the summer not far from where they live in Shawanaga and there they have a few cottage rentals. It was so awesome pulling up to the cottage Saturday with my family there waiting.....and the great spot it was on. On the lake....trees turning....and the anticipation of great time spent with family in the outdoors...the kids running around just enjoying.


The only 'glitch' was Johnathon leaving after Thanksgiving dinner to head home. Although the actual holiday is on Monday, I think most families have their dinner on Sundays...as we did. Johnathon had to work the holiday Monday so we had an almost early dinner (definitely early for our family) on Sunday and then off he went with Oliver in tow to meet up with his Nana....which gave room for our munchkins and I to get home with my brother, Cheryl and the Jackster on Monday.


All in all, we had a nice time....the drive up was stunning watching all the colours unfold the further north we went. However, I didn't take any pics on the way up and where the cottage was, there were alot of evergreens....so not the colours to look out at that I had hoped for but still quite nice.


Saturday = gorgeous fall day! Fun with our boys and our nephews....later some marshmallows around the fire and then the rain came. And the kicker = Sunday. Woke up to some hail and then snow and then hail again!!! Yep. As much as we were all like what the *^$!....really I think we somehow were quite enjoying it. Early...yes....but that I think that is what was cool about it.

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Okay, I wrote that over a week ago...just now getting back to finishing this post.

And I wanted to write....I did. But I'm just having one of those days....a bad day. A really cranky, bitchy day where I'm sure some of those around me were wishing they weren't. And I'm sorry for that. So, best I just end for now. All is well....the boys, Sydney and my honey (although he is having a 'day' himself..) and I will start again fresh hopefully tomorrow.

Love to all of those that take the time to read. Lots of love!

will try again

I actually started writing again last night and was going to post TWO blog entries in One day!! How is that for progress?? However, my Aunt called while I was typing and we got carried away chatting for quite a while so that was the end of that.

I think I mostly just want to update about the bed....Shane's bed. I don't want to go on and on about it but I just find it a very exciting stage. He is so happy about it, you can see it all over his face and in his actions. For both his nap and bedtime yesterday, he jumped right into bed, raised his arms for the blankets and that was it. Out in no time. I don't want to jump the gun but that was a huge sigh of relief! And both after naptime and this morning, he just lies in bed and calls for Mommy....doesn't even get out of the bed until I/Daddy go in....and when we do, he just looks at you with that big, big smile!

Okay...righto....enough....don't want to jinx it!!!!

Yesterday was such a get it done kind of day. We accomplished much and it felt good. I even went for a walk and a Curves workout....a workout on a Sunday. And it felt good.

Some of you have been asking why I haven't posted any pics lately...and the reason is that our monitor for the pc is sick. Again. Johnathon took it in to his buddy that fixed it previously so we should have it back soon, I'm hopeful for today. I only like to upload my pics on that computer and not my laptop.

Over and out...be back soon.

not much going on

It's not very often that we have weekends with no big plans.....and what a treat they are. This weekend has been one of those. My brother and my nephew, Jack,were over Friday night. Nicholas has so been wanting to hang with his cousin and I know Jack with his new red light saber has been itching to get over for a visit to share this new wondrous toy.

Saturday, we were looking forward to the Fall Festival here in town.....so we strolled into town yesterday afternoon after the rain let up and I did know that Newcastle generally is a ghost town after five....but it was only 2ish and well, I guess everyone is made of sugar or something because it was slim pickings for things to see or do. We could not even get a hotdog for the kids. So, we strolled around and Nicholas went down the giant slide a couple of times and well, that was about it.

We do have a goal today - and that is to put together Shanes new big boy bed and get his room all moved around, cleaned up, new pics up, Organized! I ordered new bedding and it came on Friday (they just left it right out on the front porch)...I'm super excited to get it all set up....I love it! I was hoping to find colours in the bedding to match his walls and save us another painting day....will post a pic once it is complete! It will be interesting to see how Shane reacts to this next big step.

So, I have to share this because every Mommy knows this would melt their heart. Nicholas' daycare lady, Lindsay, was asking the kids what their favourite thing to do was. When it was Nicholas' turn, he said giving my Mommy hugs. Awwww....my sweet boy. And hey, I rate over Star Wars!!!

One more cute story....this morning, Shane was sitting in his chair eating breakfast and he wanted Daddy's attention. He said Daddy a couple of times and then it was Daddy-O! Sydney has been saying this for years and then Nicholas followed....and now Shaney. It was so unexpected, I just had to laugh.

One more coffee and then it's time to get busy....Happy Sunday!

back to school and daycare = house full of sickies

We went from not even a runny nose for months to making sure there is a box of kleenex in each and every room. Yes, here we go....cold season. And so far, the boys haven't been too bad. Shane had one night earlier this week where he was up ALOT but since then, mostly a runny nose. Nicholas seems to be more head coldish....but he's not complaining. Myself, on the other hand, I will complain. I will complain about the fire in my throat, the congestion, headache and sinus pain. I will complain that I felt the need to cancel our dinner party plans for this evening....because really, this just plain sucks. Good news...so far....is that Johnathon has not one symptom. He has been warned though!

It has been a great Saturday so far though. I'm medicated. We haven't accomplished much except bake some cookies but it's been perfect just hanging with the boys.....Shane, thankfully and touch wood, has been much more pleasant the past week. He's starting to say more words and he just loves to kid around.....and what an instigator! Nicholas has no idea what he is in for!!

Nicholas started going to Beavers (boy scouts) this past Thursday. He wasn't super excited when he got home but Daddy stayed on and watched for the first night and he said Nicholas enjoyed himself and we both agree that this will be really good for him.

So, this is it. I'm uninspired....will write more when feeling better. It has been four hours since last dose - I am off for more!!!!

i'm back

I know you are all sitting on the edge of your seat waiting for me to write....so here I am....hehehe! I am starting my Saturday just the way I like to (minus J's alarm going off as he had to go to a meeting this morning). But I had my snuggle time with my boys and now I'm having a great cup of coffee and taking some time to write on here.

So, let's see...what have we been up to lately? First off, we had a really, really good time at the cottage rental we had over the Labour Day long weekend. We found this one on the classifieds at work. Johnathon had previously worked for the owner. The price was right and it looked cute so we booked it. And it was cute. Really, really perfect actually. Nothing fancy but had a great deck with the most beautiful views. It was almost literally on top of the water. The water was as clear and clean as I have ever seen and every night, we had the most beautiful sunset. The boys loved it! And there was a bonus trampoline (which in fact, there was a scary fall but I will get to that another time...all is well though). Shane had his spot on the deck where he would sit and watch and comment on all the boats whizzing by. I think I sent most of you the pics but I will add them on here as well. We are going to rent next summer for a week at least so that we can include Sydney. She will LOVE it!

Nicholas has started school. Daddy and I took him that first morning and even though we did this last year, I still felt my heart swell and after he had lined up and gone into class, the tears came. I wonder if it will be like that every year. I would guess yes but I'm sure it gets easier. As much as he wasn't looking forward to going to school, when we picked him up later that day, he was glowing and excited and happy to be there. He is already invited to his first birthday party which is today. He isn't 100% that he wants to go but I asked him this morning to make a firm decision and he wants to go. I guess the last bday party he went to at AirZone, he said the boys were beating him up. Yep, I know...I felt the same way....you leave my baby boy alone. BUT really they were all wrestling and I guess he just isn't used to that with other kids. And truth be told, our Nicholas is a gentle soul so I'm guessing it will be a while before he is used to rough-housing with the other kids.

Shane has been up to his usual grunting, yelling, crying, whining, trying Mommy and Daddys patience self. Yep, I said it. This is our boy. This is what he does on a pretty consistent basis. With us. Only with us. I don't want to rush time one iota BUT I cannot say that I (we) won't be completely happy when this phase runs its course.

But, aside from that, Shane is really liking his new daycare. Nicholas is as well. And that is nothing but a huge sigh of relief. It is just so hard some days to leave your babies but knowing they are being well looked after and most of all, happy, is nothing but sweet relief.

Two nights ago, we had a night away to go see the U2 concert in Toronto. Months ago, I bought these tickets and boy, were we excited to see the show but in all honestly, Johnathon and I both were somewhat disappointed. The songs weren't what we had hoped for, the show itself just wasn't that fantastic. Now, granted, our seats were far from great and there were 62000 people in attendance which is awesome to look around and be a part of...but I know we prefer smaller venues. All in all, it was a good time though. And even though there were 62000 fans there, we happened to sit by one who works for Hydro AND her birthday is the same day as mine!!!

Johnathon and I had a nice time chatting, eating, drinking, people watching on a couple of patios....and we booked ourselves in a hotel for the night which is always enjoyable. Many, many thanks to my brother and Cheryl for taking care of our boys and the house.

I'm not really feeling it writing this morning so apologies for the ho-hum post. BUT I felt the need to get some things down in writing. I am off to bathe my boys and get out shopping for a birthday gift for the party.

Be back soon...with pics.

and another week flies by

All of you that are able to update your blog so regularly.....I applaud you! Good work! I have come to the conclusion that I am either just a slacker or just have too much stuff (I'll keep it friendly) going on!

So, here we are...another week of our precious summer has passed. And here we are now....the week before school starts up again. We will take Nicholas on Wednesday to meet with his new teacher and we will get a chance to meet and chat with her about the upcoming year ahead. My big SK boy now realizes summer is about over....and though he has shown some...okay, a teeny bit of enhusiasm, he really would just prefer to continue on with his summer vacation. But I remain confident that he will get right back into the swing of things once this school year begins. He sooooo needs it....even if he is not ready, we most certainly are!

And thus, the back to school shopping has begun. Not that a SK'er needs much...really just a new backpack and a new lunch bag...but of course, I need....okay, maybe want to buy him some new cool back to school clothes. So, backpack has been looked after. Nicholas' only request is that it be blue....no Superheroes or cartoon characters. I will openly admit this makes Mommy happy...so a nice blue backpack has been bought. We are, however, in search of a Star Wars lunch bag (so if any of you have spotted one....PLEASE let me know where). A trip to Winners today was disappointing but I did score a really cool pair of jeans..

Before I recap the week/end....I have to try and capture a little of what Shane has been up to. I could probaly sum it up in a few words like Shane-zilla, super-crankola, scary child....but that probaly doesn't sound like nice things for Mommy to say, right? Well, sorry...it has been the toughest time so far for both of us for both our boys. Shaney is going through some 'scary' phase and we find ourselves at our wits ends at times...too many times....and patience is not our strong suit right now. We are trying....trying. But the boy wants to control....and well, that needs to be knocked out....sooner than later hopefully. This boy has will...determination....might...to take us down!!! And really, we would be perfectly happy with a 'please' to come out of his mouth. And before I sound too over the top with my perfectly healthy, mostly happy, baby boy....let me say that I do believe while we were reading books this evening and when he wanted yet another book, I said to him Mommy will only read another book if you say please....I heard it... a faint, but it was there....please. So, we shall see...

Okay, so recent events...

A few weeks ago, I decided that I would like to have the girls over from work. My new work group....a chance to sit and be social outside of our cubby offices....and a good group of them agreed and made it out. Yay! My date was Friday at 530pm...and these girls are good... on time and decked out in their 'fall' gear as they all knew it was an outside evening. We had a few cocktails, some eats and I think we all had an enjoyable evening. Of course, the evening turned to night time and Kim and her hubby stayed back as we were hoping and we carried on until past midnight. Lots of fun....and we plan to invite them back for dinner soon. Thanks ladies for making it out!

Saturday, Nicholas and I had plans for some board games and a movie....so that is exactly what we did. We went to see G-Force which was quite entertaining....nothing like watching some super spy guinea pigs save the day!!

Sunday, the plan if the weather held was to take the boys to the CNE. For my family and friends in the south, the CNE (Canadian National Exhibition) is a huge carnival of sorts with many other attractions and happenings that comes through Toronto the last two weeks leading into Labour Day....it's a tradition that has been around for like 130 years and I spent many years as a child and later as an older 'child' trekking down for the festivities and many concerts. Well, I tend to grasp on to ideas and go with them thinking the kids will just love it and I wanted to start my own 'tradition' of taking our family so off we went.....and I now realize that this 'tradition' will have to wait another couple of years. We did have a great time but I think they will have just a good of time, even better, going to the local Orono Fair when it arrives in a couple of weeks. And we will be there....enjoying the same things as we did with young children for oh about, ten times less the cost, not to mention the aggravation of driving and sitting in evil traffic....don't even get me going with finding parking!! But alas, we got there and Shane enjoyed watching the massive crowds....just was taking it all in...giggles and grins with the activity... and Nicholas enjoyed the rides and games....and both really seemed to enjoy the Harry and his Bucketful of Dinosaurs show that we went to. Mommy enjoyed singing along....I think all of us Mommy's know the words to so many of these childrens shows....and secretly enjoy singing along...hehe!

So, that's about all I have for now...we are now getting ready for our 'end of the summer' long weekend at the cottage we rented in Maynooth. And believe it or not...the forecast looks good!

comings and goings

Why don't I keep this more up to date?? !!!

Sydney left for SC and has since started her first year of highschool!! Yes, our girl is officially a Freshman. It seems like only yesterday that I was a bundle of nerves and excitement to meet the wonderful little six year old that her Daddy was so anxious and proud for me to meet. And right from day one, I was smitten. And now here Sydney is...starting a whole new chapter in her life. We could not be more proud of you sweetheart...fully enjoy these coming years and all they have to offer.

Nicholas will start back to school the Wednesday after Labour Day. Now that he saw his best friend Chase at his birthday party on Friday, he actually seems a little bit excited about going back. Up until then...uh, NO. We will be happy to get him back with kids his own age and getting focused again with learning and socializing. We also found new daycare that we are quite excited about. It seems that with both of Nicholas' daycares in the past, he has always had children younger than him or older ones in school. And he has always formed bonds with these children but now, we are all happy that our new provider, Lindsay, has three boys....a 6 month old, and 5 and 6 year olds. And the 5 year old is also going into SK...only he is going to the french immersion school in B'ville. BUT they will have the same days off every week so my bet is they will become fast friends...and even better, they only live a few minutes up the road. Lindsay also cares for a 3 year old boy so he should be good company for Shane. The daycare setup is as we hoped...structured with a healthy focus on learning while also having fun.

Shane is doing great....although we do wish his words were coming along better. But, we do know they are coming and he most definitely understands what we say. We are working with him though and I'm sure I will be posting a blog one day saying be careful what you wish for...!!

Johnathon and I celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary this past Monday. We were able to spend a couple hours chatting on the patio at our pub after work. Our plan was to go home, spend some time with the munchkins, get them tucked in and order Chinese and enjoy a quiet, candlelit dinner. Well...that plan didn't quite work out. We got the boys to bed, pulled out the menu..spent about a half hour deciding on what to order...only to find out that restaurant wasn't open on Mondays! Hm, so then we decided to order take out from the restaurant in town, Steamers. Johnathon called to order, only to find out they are closed down for two weeks as new owners have taken over. Hm. Now, most of you know that Newcastle is a tiny town with very limited options for dining. So, then it turned to pizza and wings. We had picked up slices for the boys the previous week and had a little taste...and oh so yummy. So, we thought we would give them a try. And guess what?? Closed. A pizza place that closed before 845 pm! Is this bad karma or what? What are we supposed to take from this?? Who knows...we are guessing just a good laugh! Oh, and it turns out, that we ended up ordering from our standard place and enjoyed some pizza and wings. Not exactly what we had in mind...but all good. Happy Anniversary to my wonderful husband...only 3 more years til Vegas baby and our re-marriage by Elvis!!

my baby boy turns 2

On July 31st, our little Shane-man turned two! TWO!! That may sound like such a little number but really, it is so BIG. Nicholas likes to remind me that Shane is not a baby any more when I call him baby boy. He will correct me and say he is not a baby Mommy, he is a toddler. And I always reply, you are both my babies..and you always will be. He always smiles.

Shane's actual birthday was the last day at the cottage. When Shane woke up, he snuggled in bed with us for a little while and Daddy and I sang Happy Birthday while all snuggled. He just looked at us with the 'my parents are goofy' look and then all smiles.

His actual 'celebraton' followed a couple days later once we were home and settled. Sydney and I had went shopping over the weekend and one of the items I was determined to find was a jumping/bouncy outdoor 'thingy' for Shane's birthday gift. I did not even think twice that Toys R Us wouldn't have any in stock. None. Zero. Apparently, although still mid-summer, they are out of season now. So, after the initial disappointment, we left the store empty-handed and moved on.

After our girly shopping, we left the mall and headed over to Canadian Tire where we hmmed and hawed over this ONE bouncy 'thingy' they still had in stock. I decided to buy it although it wasn't exactly what I had in mind but I did know both boys would still enjoy it. Just as we were walking away from that area, I noticed on the board of what they have in stock for big items, there was a picture of the big box I saw in the aisle but had the regular price tag of $599 on it so of course, that was not even an option. But this tag was showing final clearance....and I have to say, I was giddy at the price. So, that was that. And now we have a 12'X11' LARGE jumping 'thingy' in our backyard that all the kids get to enjoy.

Okay, now that was probaly way too lengthy of an explanation at how we arrived at Shane's gift but the shopper in me is still very excited to get such a great deal and for something the boys should get a few years use out of at least. Yay!

Shawn, Cheryl and the boys were over for Shanes party as well as Derek and Allison and the two boys...which is really a nice fit as there are the 3 older boys closer in age and the three younger ones all close in age. Believe it or not, it did not rain that day so we were all able to have fun in the backyard. Happy Birthday to my sweet two year old Shaney. Your smiles, giggles, smooches and hugs bring such happiness to so many. All our love baby boy.

cottage week

It's always more difficult for me to write about something after it has passed, or at least passed a while ago. But, all the same, wanted to blog about our cottage week. Over the years, we have been renting cottages as a getaway for the family to unwind and have some fun and forget about the rest of the world. This time we had little choice as we were lucky to even get a cell phone signal! Like everyone else, we hope for great weather and you have all these perfectly wonderful illusions of hot summer days....swimming, canoeing, playing in the sun. But again, this year, that wasn't really the case. This summer has been pretty non-existent (up until this current week anyway) and very, very wet! So we spent alot of time relaxing and enjoying the cottage views and sounds, fishing, a couple trips to the provincial park nearby, playing games, grilling and enjoying some 'refreshments'.

Aunt Toots made the trip by bus from Ottawa for the first half of the week...as always, wonderful to have her visit any time.

The park we went to was Bon Echo Provincial Park and some friends and co-workers had mentioned to me that it was well worth the visit. So, off we went...and were they ever right! What a stunning park! We all enjoyed the guided pontoon tour of the cliffs and the native pictographs. Very interesting and very pretty. The park itself really grabbed me and I have every intention of securing us a great camping spot there next year. Hoping to convince Shawn and his family to join us. The sites are close to everything, the views are awesome and the beaches are very well groomed with sandy, shallow entries. Perfect for the young ones...and us, ahem, older ones too!

Sydney and I went back a few days later to take the hike up the cliffs to the various lookout points. Again...so very worth it! It could only have been better had the sun been out.

The end of the week rolled around and it was time to head home. The timing worked out really well with it being a Fri-Fri rental so we were home to enjoy a 3 day long weekend before returning to work....and on that holiday Monday, we had Shane's 2nd birthday party...which I will talk about next post..

so much to write, so little time

Okay, back home from yet another road trip. This time we headed north to the reserve to spend a couple of days with Mom and Dad. As much as we loved seeing them, it feels so fabulously great to get back home after such a busy couple of weeks. Home sweet home...there's no place like home....such common phrases, but oh so true!

Lots to write about...our week at the cottage, Shaney's 2nd birthday, time with Sydney, Syd leaving :( ..

BUT our boys are equally as excited to be home and finished with the long drive so off I go for now.

we are ready!

Soooo ready....for a wonderful, perfect week with our family...the boys, our wonderful Sydney and my Aunt Tootsie will join us for four days as well...at a cottage that we have rented for the week.

And I have to say...I really don't care (okay, I may be over-doing it) if it rains the whole time. I just can't wait to be away with no interruptions whatsoever with our munchkins.

So, I will end that at that. It is going to be fabulous and I'll write when I return.

I do have to end on a sad note....a wonderful, amazingly wonderful woman left us this week. Vicki's Grandma Fran passed earlier this week. She is missed, she is sooooo very loved by so many and I wish Vicki, Susan and their super big, huge family my heartfelt condolences. I am heading out early tomorrow to attend Fran's funeral...I'm sure what will be a beautiful service for a beautiful woman.

(I have a blog post coming about Fran).

wondering

Had a great weekend....sun was out and shining for Danaka's party...had a wonderful time seeing everyone there and watching the kids running around. Doug (Danaka's daddy) exceeds being handy and has built this wonderful kids fort/play gym in the yard. Shane took my breath away a couple of times...starting off by us standing guard and guiding him up the stairs to the 'fort' and the big slide. But one time down was all it took and he was up and down, up and down...all by himself and happily, very happily going down that big slide! No fear this kid, I tell ya! Even Sydney enjoyed one of the swings and Nicholas, although claiming boredom a few times (gr!), found himself having fun in the big sandbox underneath.

The older kids all headed to the pond for a swim and although we didn't think to bring suits for the kids, I asked Syd if she wanted Daddy to go home and get hers..and her response was uh, I don't really do ponds. And thereafter, Sue and myself found ourselves laughing and completely agreeing on that point. Andrea filled the kiddy pool and Nicholas surprised me by asking to go in even though he didn't have swimshorts. I suggested he just go in his underwear and he was hesitant, even saying he felt others may find that funny (that shyness comes out sometimes) but after agreement from the other ladies that it's all just good, he was in and enjoying himself.

Now, Sunday morning rolled around...too quickly as usual. We decided to take the family out for breakfast in Bowmanville. So, off we went...had our breakfast and then on our way home, the strangest (scariest) thing happened. A GO bus went by and I happened to read the digital sign (I'm sure there is a proper term by what I mean...escaping me completely) above the front window of the bus and it said - EMERGENCY, CALL POLICE!!!! I told Johnathon what I just saw so he pulled out the cell and called 911. They took all the information...slowly. Way s.l.o.w. To the point where I quietly said, well they are dead now. Not nice, I know...but man, not too quick on the emergency call. We still have no clue if it was a real emergency...have not heard a thing on the news but will be scouring the local paper tomorrow for something...we certainly were not turning around to follow.

I think, sorry I know, that we were thinking back to the horrific bus massacre from months ago. I think we all remember that!

Again, the night has turned long and like alot of work nights, I imagine myself through the day crawling into bed early and reading my book and drifting off to sleep at a nice early hour. Nicholas and I had some nice cuddling this evening though watching the Disney Earth movie....and now, Johnathon and Sydney are doing the same watching some horror movie. Not for me...at all. But I know 100% that the two of them are enjoying themselves...and that simply makes me smile.

rain, rain go away

The pics posted today were from the past few weeks....just having fun in the backyard with friends and family, including our 4th of July party which, from all accounts, was a success! Lots of fun and we appreciate every one of you coming out!

Sadly, we flew Mom home on Tuesday...but the same evening, Syd flew up and we will have her with us for the month. I have not had the opportunity to take any pics yet of Syd, only because I needed batteries and have since bought some so this weekend, the camera will be working.

I've been off work for the past few days....have been experiencing some anxiety issues but I just want you all to know that I'm starting to feel better and the anxiety is lessening. I think it's really helped to just be with my kids, all three of them.

Weekend has started and what has that brought us....yep, MORE RAIN! I can hear the thunder rolling in and the sky has turned a very dark grey. I'm sure Ms Andrea is not thrilled as it is Danaka's 3rd birthday party today. We are all crossing our fingers that the rain will pass by this afternoon and we can all enjoy an afternoon of birthday fun at Andrea and Dougs gorgeous property.

the dreaded needles

Yesterday was a day both J and I were dreading....taking BOTH boys for needles! I thought I better start a little early with talking to Nicholas about what his day held in store for him. Needless to say, he was less than pleased about it....and he brought it up several times before we headed out. Like...will it hurt? And I told him, well it will feel like a pinch and it will be super quick! How quick he asks? A second or two. Well, then that led to a whole conversation about units of time..which was fine as it took his mind off of the needle.

Nicholas was very adamant that his brother be subject to this drama first. We were of course reluctant because from what we knew from the last visit, Shane was definitely going to fuss and cry...and really, who can blame the little guy? So, after the boys were all checked out and given a clean bill of health, we thought it best that I take Nicholas for a walk while Shane has his TWO needles. We went to visit Syd in the waiting room and then Nicholas said he wanted to go back so we did...and I'm thinking well, they are sure taking their time because all I could hear was silence. We walk in and there is Shaney looking at me with the most nonchalant look, not a tear in sight and the nurse had just taken the second needle out! In fact Johnathon said Shane actually put his arm up to the nurse for the second needle and pulled his sleeve up!!

So, of course, we are quite impressed and after some loving on the brave boy, it is Nicholas' turn. Our very sensitive 5 year old went and sat on Daddys lap with great hesitance....started flinching and whined a little before the needle even was in...and a couple of seconds later, it was done. Over and done with...Yay!!! No big tears...just a couple wee ones and we were out of there....on our way to promised ice cream for a job well done!

They never cease to amaze, do they?

Happy 4th!

We are gearing up to celebrate the 4th of July, Canadian style. A bit of a bash planned for this afternoon, evening, nighttime for those that wish to carry it on!! J and I have been full speed ahead getting prepared and Mother Nature seems to have cooperated with a mostly sunny day ahead, although cool for July...reaching only in the low 70's but in the sunshine, we will take it!!

Shane was up early with us....had some snuggles and some giggles....J took Chrissy and Shane for a morning walk/run at the park. Nicholas is still asleep...really. And I'm having my coffee and then off and running.

All of you, especially to my fabulous family in the US and my good friends there as well....A VERY HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!!!!

Happy Canada Day!

I know we are all crossing our fingers around here for some nice Canada Day weather today. No big plans here ... after Shanes nap, we will pile in the Explorer and seek out some Canada Day activities and then weather pending, later tonight, we will all head down to the Newcastle beach for the fireworks!

All of you....enjoy....have fun....go celebrate and pay tribute to the greatest nation on this planet!

Oh Canada!

where did the weekend go?

I know I'm not the only one that wonders the same thing. Two days off...it's just not enough. This is when I miss being on shift the most. The many extra days off to get exactly what we spent alot of our time doing this weekend - dreaded housework and just work around the house in general. Now, I will say that I think both Johnathon and I feel a sense of accomplishment so this is a plus. We did alot of cleaning, moving furniture all over the house, painting, and more cleaning. And we are not there yet....but getting there. Alot of new faces will be at our home next weekend for our 4th of July party so we want it to be just right. And even though today was a lousy, rainy day....it made it much easier to be indoors getting it done. And with all this lousy rain we have had lately, the yard is looking lush and all my flowers are growing beautifully. And this week, let it rain...rain as much as it wants but NOT next Saturday! Hear that Mother Nature...loud and clear I hope!

A big, BIG thank you to my hubby for all his hard work...moving furniture up and down stairs. I tried to help where I could but apparently, he just wanted us to stay clear. Who knew all I had to do was make a 'honey-do' list. The things you learn along the way. And let me say, I'm really great at making lists...

The boys were happy all weekend....Shanes fussiness stage has dwindled alot. I'm not saying he doesn't have his moments, trust me on that. But the boy was a happy camper this weekend. Happy boys = happy parents!

a short break

Although it is a very hot and sunny day out there, I've committed myself to getting the housework done. How boring is that? Ugh. But for a few moments, I will take a break. The great part about today is that my hubby seems to have committed himself to some household things that needed to be done as well and has already painted the back deck and has now taped and almost finished painting the trim up and down the stairs and down the hall. Yay. The to-do list is forever long and we have exactly one week to get it all done.....for our 4th of July party next Saturday.

Actually, we will get out later and enjoy some sunshine.... The boys have loved running through the sprinkler at daycare so today, we will pick out a fun one for them to use in the backyard as well as a new kiddie pool for the Shane-man.

And then later tonight, as I said to Johnathon the other night...I'm turning on the disco ball, putting on Michael Jackson and doing some dancing!

overdue

Every day the same thought occurs....blog Laura, blog. And then every day new happenings, new laughs, new STUFF. So, behind again....but it wouldn't be me I suppose if I were current with this.

Let's back up a bit. The weekend. A weekend that seemed to have started on Thursday and ended on Monday. My brother, Shawn, celebrated his birthday on Thursday. That led them over here for pizza, cake and poker. As always a good time but ugh, not always the best idea on a work night.

That took us to the weekend. A long one as I booked off Monday to spend time with my Aunt who was visiting from Ottawa. Woke up Saturday to rain....rain that did not end at all. I seriously can't remember such a day in quite some time. Unfortunately, for Johnathon, he had a day of golf in a tournament in that never ending rain. But, like most golfers, it didn't 'dampen' his spirits and enjoyed a great day on the course and apparently did some of his best golfing ever.

While he was off doing that, I packed up Mom (Jeanette) and the boys and headed out for a long, dreary, wet drive to my cousins house in Kingston for little Jax' 2nd birthday party. That is where we met up with my Aunt Tootsie and my other cousin, Krystal, to celebrate and then bring them back to our house for the weekend. Tiffany put on a most wonderful party for Jax and the full house all enjoyed themselves. Take a look at the fabulous cake Tiff made all on her own....a venture that took her 13 hours! Yes, that is not a typo...13 hours! What a good Momma!

And then we hit the road again....in the rain. Finally made it back home...boys were tired out and once they were settled in for the night, we all headed to our bar in the basement and enjoyed some cocktails and laughs.

Sunday, a Happy Fathers Day for Daddy! Nicholas was excited to give Daddy his cards he made at school and the t-shirt he made as well. Perfect. After breakfast we hit the road yet again, this time to Toronto to drive my cousin home. We visited for a bit...saw her new apartment (nice) and back home with a few stops along the way. Later that night, a very yummy steak dinner for the man of the day and another night of chatter and laughs.

So, by Monday, I was pooped! Completely. Exhausted. Drove Aunt Tootsie to the train station, stopped for lunch and then home sweet home. Johnathon even came home early and we got to enjoy some quiet time. Lovely.

So, not sure all the goings on needed to be typed here but it's here...and I'm not re-writing. A great weekend with family....and that made it all wonderful. I did miss my Dad though and he was on my mind alot. Love you Dad...and we will be up to see you soon.

Nicholas had his last day of his first year of school today. He has been dreading school lately...but simply because his MaMa is here and savours every moment. Not to mention, he quite enjoys the later bedtimes when there is no school. But one year has past and he was thrilled when we were all there to pick him up at school and shared his tales from the day. Sounded like a lot of fun...lots of water activities and enjoying this gorgeous, summer weather. We have been waiting a looong time for some of this sunshine. A long time. Let's hope it sticks around for a while. Hard to believe we had to wait until the end of June to turn our A/C on! I asked Nicholas where he would like to go eat to celebrate his first year and we ended up going to Dairy Queen. So, while everyone ate their yummy burgers, dogs, fries, chicken, blizzards and ice cream....I munched on a salad!

Yes, salad. I'm day 3 of working towards a goal...and I'm committed.

And well, that is that.

a great start to a great day

I was actually awake before my children this morning. I woke up with a perfect breeze coming through the window and something so rare...silence. Until the neighbour started up his lawnmower at 730 am...ON A SUNDAY! I snuggled up to the J-man and just enjoyed for just a little bit longer. A perfect start to a day.

I was still able to have time to brush my teeth, throw on some shorts, feed Chrissy, make coffee and was hoping to actually sit here and blog for just a few minutes but the latter did not happen. The boys are eating now so I'm typing away while they have their breakfast.

Update for the past week....hm. Well, not too much happening really. Nicholas' school had their Fun Fair on Thursday. Mom (Jeanette) and Nicholas made a big batch of cupcakes for the fair earlier in the day. After work, we waited on Daddy and then we all loaded into the truck and off to the fair! I have to say it was a bit of a disappointment but nonetheless, we went for some family fun and to support the school. Daddy was a volunteer and ran one of the childrens games - 'Fear Factor'. We finally found him with a lineup of munchkins waiting their turn. NO, they did not need to eat anything gross but instead a big bin was filled with purply water with 'stuff' floating around and they had to stick their hand in to the bottom and find a coloured plastic chip. From Johnathons account of things, some of the children were actually frightened to do this....too funny! I think he had the most fun when he would tell the children...oh, nothing to be worried about - only a couple of kids have been bit today. Some would yank their arm out right out of there! One little girl started screaming....and I guess Mom wasn't too impressed. All in fun, all in fun..

Shane continues with his yelling...yep, we are just LOVING that. Ugh. But then puts on that cute as can be dimple grin and is full of happiness once again. And really, he only does this with Mommy and Daddy. Our own daycare provider, Justyna, doesn't believe that Shaney can be like this. So, one day, Johnathon came home with the boys, Shane pitched his regular fit so he picked up the phone, called Justyna and asked if she recognized this..!! Of course she didn't but she now knows his capabilities.

I dove into my job on Thursday.....my first 'real' day with my client groups. I actually had a couple of mornings where I woke up with butterflies. It's that busy and the variety, although wonderful to have, can be overwhelming. BUT I know that it is only a matter of time and I will be much more confident and organized. I can't wait for that time. Really.

Well, here it is .. Sunday already! Where do the weekends go? And it is an absolutely beautiful Sunday morning. Sun is shining, it is warm....like seasonal for the first time in a while. More gardening to do, play in the yard, and possibly take the family to Ribfest so we can enjoy some good eats and the boys can go on some rides.

Saturday, although we did accomplish much....had us waiting on company that did not show. No phone call. Nothing. I am less than impressed...but sometimes you just need to shake your head and carry on. Lessons learned.

Am off to finish my coffee on the deck with Mom and J. Happy Sunday!

shane-man and our young jedi

Let's see...do I start with the good, bad or the ugly? Okay, the good...of course. The wonderfully good things to say about our boys. Nicholas is fast approaching the end of his first year of school and JK. As much as he loved his school year for the most part, he is deliriously happy that it is ending, I think mostly because his grandmother, MawMaw, is here with us and he loves each and every second he gets to spend with her. He is also super excited about his sister getting here in July. He has been learning to read a little...knows what some words are by seeing them...one of those being Mommy which of course just makes me smile. His printing has greatly improved over the year and his favourite thing to do right now is draw pictures....many, many, MANY pictures. Now, most of those are of Star Wars scenes which doesn't wholly impress me but he does have a great imagination and plays it out in his pictures. We give him nudges though to draw other things and he will happily ask for an idea and once given, will produce a lovely drawing. Our fridge has now become Nicholas' art gallery and Shane, for the most part, will leave them be. Nicholas has always had the gift of gab....yep, just like his Daddy...and it hasn't slowed any. His vocabulary is amazing and we are stunned almost daily with the new words he knows and is almost always used in the right context. Johnathon and I sneak grins daily hearing him talk, especially when it is so nonchalant and these big old words come out of his mouth.

Our boy is also FULL of love. He always, always will stop what he is doing and come over for Mommy and Daddy hugs and smooches and the I love you's are forever flowing....even to his brother which is just the sweetest thing. And my hope is that will last forever and ever. My precious boy

Our little Shane-man...what a joy of a boy. His laughter is contagious and he is so full of energy. He says his favourite words over and over and puts this spin on the end that I could only explain in person. It is priceless. In less than two short months, he will be turning two. TWO! He has turned quite independent...absolutely no way are we allowed to help him on the stairs and he loves getting things for you out of the fridge or wherever things may be. And if you leave the pantry open, he will dig in there until he finally decides on just the perfect snack or food that he wants. He loves feeding Chrissy and is quite excited when I ask him to do so..BUT leave that cupboard open where the dog food bin is and he will continually feed Chrissy! And as much as Chrissy takes joy in that, she takes more joy in Shane sneaking food to him at mealtimes. He tries very hard to put his coat on and his shoes...often with the coat left covering his head...but he is trying! Oh, and though he can't get his shoes on, he has no difficulty putting Mommy's shoes on and trying to walk around in them, heels and all.

Hm...the bad. And I shouldn't really say bad but the 'not so good'. We made the mistake one day of allowing Nicholas to watch a Star Wars (Clone Wars) animated movie....which has now turned him into a Jedi in training. And as funny and cute as it can be, it is also a little worrisome with how involved he is at times. I worry. But I'm good at that. Our little boy who once loved his Thomas and Little Bear and all the wonderful shows on Treehouse now has no time for them. He refuses to even put the station on. He says it is for babies. Thankfully, he will still watch CBC Kids and TVO Kids which has a good variety for all children. He is still amazed with Space and any show he can learn from that way. This is a good. But if he had it his way, it would be Star Wars and Bakugans 24-7. I know, he is a boy. A growing boy and knows what he likes. The best we can figure is to let him be a boy but with guidelines and constant monitoring. And I have to be honest, I like a good light saber battle once in a while! It just thrills him to bits!

Nicholas has also picked up this bad habit of biting and picking at his lips. It drives me absolutely crazy! I've talked to him over and over, I have applied different lip remedies which he can't stand over and over and I've even resorted to bribing. The latter is the only method that worked...temporarily. And now that I held up my end of the 'deal', he is full on back to it. So, today, I gently let him know that this habit is getting bad again and he is not living up to his end of the deal so his Lego Star Wars DS game (that was his 'prize') will need to go away until he can start kicking this habit again. Is that wrong? Bad parenting? Perhaps...but it works!

The funny thing is that when I picked him up at daycare today after school, he immediately came up to me hiding his mouth and let me know that he had a very bad day with his lips or I should say 'wips'. He did not want me to see. The boy is very honest!

Shane's not so good. We...well I for the most part, worry a little about his speech. He is behind a little with his words and like any Mommy, I worry more than I probaly should. It comes with the package. Shane, in total, says about five words really, really well and like I said earlier, says them often and all the time. He tries to say other words but they are not there yet. We spoke with our doctor about this and she said to me "Laura, my one son didn't speak until he was in his two's and he is now borderline genius." She also told me that Albert Einstein didn't speak until he was four. I thank her for making me feel a teeny bit better. But truth is, Nicholas was a little 'behind' with talking as well but once he did start talking, it did not stop. At all. Shane's hearing is fine and he totally understands us so we are not worried there. We are believing that in his own time, the words will come. Patience. Not my best virtue at the best of times. In the meantime, we are being set up with a Speech Therapist for down the road for if the time arises and he is not speaking with more clarity, all will be in line for him to begin.

The Ugly. Ugh, the ugly. Ugly is an ugly word, isn't it? But I do believe whining and screaming are good examples. And my boys can be experts on this. Nicholas and the sometimes whine...and Shane with the crying yelling. Now, I do understand that with Shane, he is trying to express himself because the words aren't there yet. Yet. But my goodness, when he gets started, we all want to run for cover! We are very much hoping that this stage will end sooner than later. Please! And Nicholas...grr...when he gets that whine on....well, I think any parent can relate and understand. Another phase we hope ends and quick!

So, in a nutshell, this is my update. My boys. They light up my life like I have never known. Their smiles, giggles and laughter are my biggest blessing.

micah and christine get hitched

Sunday morning....a little cool but beautiful sunshine. Sitting with a very yummy cup of coffee with the recurring thought that I really should sit and update my blog. So, I'm taking some 'me' time to write between laundry and the boys needs.

It has been a very hectic couple of weeks here. We spent five days in Georgia for Micah and Christine's wedding...which was very, very nice and what a good time at the reception. It has been a while since I've been out dancing so it was a perfect time to make up for it. And not just I...Shane was all over the dance floor having a blast.

Okay, let's back up a little with some of the highlights...

Rehearsal dinner. I believe Deb said there were about 60 of us there. Most guests had all flown in for their big day (for those that don't know, Micah is J's/our nephew and Christine is his now wife...who we all think is absolutely wonderful!) so instead of the typical rehearsal dinner, this was a chance for both families to mingle and meet others. It was a great time and this is where Nicholas' little infatuation began (see pic).

Both Johnathon and Nicholas were groomsmen...J the Best Man and Nicholas the Ring Bearer. And if that isn't cute enough, by the end of the evening, Nicholas was smitten with Mikala (not sure of the spelling), their flower girl. It really was soooo cute. And good taste, I might add...she is a beautiful little girl.

That remained the same on the wedding day. Apparently, as long as they were walking down the aisle together, all was well. And after the wedding, they were inseparable...even sharing chairs to sit and running around together, playing, having a great time during cocktails before the reception. I can't wait to see Vanessa's pics (photographer).

So, wedding day....a wedding that MawMaw (Jeanette), Melvin (grandpa), Shane and I almost missed! Yes, lost. Very lost. But thankfully, after being turned around a few times, we made it and just in time! I can't really speak much about the ceremony because really, I was only able to listen on the speakers from the brides room where the kids played during the ceremony. I was able to watch everyone come down the aisle..and then Shane made it clear early that this was going to get loud. So, we shuffled off..

Micah and Christine, it was a very lovely wedding...and the reception was just a ton of fun! We wish you every happiness there is with lots of love.

So, I wanted to write more of what is going on....but will have to wait...

Unfortunately, I don't have any really good shots of the wedding/wedding party as I simply didn't have the opportunity. But I will get what I have posted shortly and in the meantime, post a couple here.

mothers day

I never took the opportunity to wish all the mothers I know in my life a most wonderful Mothers Day last weekend. I hope you had a fantastic day and were feeling the love! We had a wonderful day over here....started off with Nicholas and Daddy making breakfast in bed and ended by tucking my two beautiful boys into bed with the biggest smooches and hugs after a near perfect day with the men in my life....perfect would have had Syd and our Moms here. I know it's late...but really every day I wish you all a Happy Mothers Day.

chrissy's winter coat comes off

Just had to share a pic of our Chrissy girl. Johnathon took her to be groomed on Saturday and she came back a pretty princess (it says so on her bandana)! I can't believe how she looks so much smaller after being groomed and they really seem to give her the lab look instead of retriever by taking all her long hair off...but it does grow quickly. Such a pretty girl!

topping it all off

Okay, am going to write this and hope it is the last thing I have to complain/moan about for a very long time. Let me first say, the boys are doing well. A bit of a cough remains and the typical, constant runny noses but all seems well.

After the weekend and being so sick, I got myself into work Monday morning...only to turn around a couple of hours later and go home. Not well. Later that afternoon, after some rest, I went to put my shoes away in our bedroom closet. I was knelt down, about to place them on their rack and WHACK!, the iron that was stored above (about 5 ft above), came down smack on the crown of my head. Almost sounds comical, doesn't it....but let me say, it's been constant pain ever since and is doesn't want to subside. Yesterday, I started worrying myself silly....well, okay, Johnathon got me started by telling me that he was lying there that morning thinking how my brain could be swelling...so I called Telehealth so they could advise me what I should do. After our discussion, she insisted I head to the hospital and be checked...and not to drive.

Thankfully, my brother, came to pick me up and 'looked after me'. After a long wait at emerg, I was sent home and told to monitor myself and if anything unusual that could start happening because of the concussion, to get myself back to urgent care or emerg. This made me feel better....or so I thought. But I'm starting to wonder today how this pain can not be getting any less....if no change by tomorrow, I will head back and have it checked again.

Really....what next???

So, with that update....let me fill you in on the strange happenings around here. And I know you may think...oh wow, she does have a head injury...but nonetheless will share.

Upon our return from Mexico, I started the mountain of laundry and all the time wondering just where did this red shirt go that I really like. I knew I had worn it before we went away and I looked everywhere for this shirt. And nothing. I even suggested that Johnathon stop letting his girlfriends wear my clothes home (calm down...just joking!). Well, last Thursday while I was home with Shane and his eye infection, I found it. Sitting in the middle of my stairway!!! Out of nowhere!!! Out of freaking nowhere!! I can't tell you the anxiety I felt in that moment...and wondering who the h*ll is playing with me!! And then the day the iron got me, earlier when I got home from work, I had changed into some comfy clothes. I had a belt on and I know me and my behaviours. And I know that when I wear a belt, it either a) goes on the floor until later b) goes on the ottoman, again until later or c) I actually put it away where it belongs. (C doesn't happen very often). Later on in the day, I was putting some laundry away in our bedroom and look at our dresser and again, a little anxiety burst, as I see my belt laying all laid out perfectly right in the middle of the dresser. I would never do that! I mean, I have to hope that it was me, I have to. BUT I know that is not something I would do. And then, the iron comes barrelling down on my head after I know, I KNOW, I tucked it and its cord away safely a couple days prior thinking in my head how I would never want it to fall on the boys heads.

So, my questions are....how did my red shirt simply re-appear like that, how in the world did my belt sit so neatly on the dresser and how did that cord get loose and me just happen to make it have the iron crash on my head. ???

HM.

Puerto Plata '09

a broken record

Yes, unfortunately, what I'm writing about is what I've wrote about quite a bit. It is pathetic really and I will keep it minimal as I'm tired of listening to it myself. We are sick. The boys, thankfully, are doing better. Nicholas finished up his antibiotics for his ears this morning and his cold seems to have diminished except for the hacking cough. Shane seems pretty much the same. Their eye infections seem to have vanished with the drops. Daddy is battling his head cold with Nyquil still...and well, I have been pretty much a big sick mess all week. Yesterday was the worst of all and today, I am 'pretending' to be okay. I am bound and determined to get out of the house and enjoy some of this glorious sunshine that we have going on.

I would like to tell more about my new job but I would need to be there a little more in order to do so I think. Between training, family days off with the sick boys and a vacation day on Friday, there isn't much to tell. Training was good...and I think tomorrow, I will enjoy getting some hands on experience now that I have a little background. I was offered a permanent position with HR...not sure if I mentioned this already....and I accepted. Being part of Supply Chain for 9 years, it was a tough decision to leave and move on with Human Resources. I have built some wonderful relationships there and being part of Darlington has been great! I will miss many people and the cushion of my old job there BUT eventually, it's time to move on and my time has come.

I'm looking forward to building new relationships and becoming part of what seems, a fabulous team. These women seem truly awesome and they work together, help each other, and are just some of the friendliest people I have met in a long time. Their workload is overwhelming and I know they are taking me in with open arms. I can't wait to take on my own client groups and dive in! And having always wanting to be part of HR, I am looking forward to taking some courses to eventually further my career within the HR family.

Vacation day...yes, we took Friday off as we had tickets to go see Staind at Casino Rama last Thursday night. Just want to say what a fabulous concert (sick and all)!! A smaller venue with such a great band was pure enjoyment, not to mention we had 4th row and could see perfectly. Awesome! Auntie Cheryl agreed to watch our boys for the night and again, we thank her so much!! I just hope her sickness that she is now suffering through wasn't from us. Get better..xo.

A big sigh of relief for Syds little brother, Sam. He was hospitalized for 4 days and is now home on the mend surrounded by family and lots of love.

*** Pics are being uploaded into an album right now from our Puerto Plata trip...will get them posted on here shortly.

puerto plata

While Nicholas is resting on the couch watching Brother Bear (yes, I actually convinced him to watch something other than Clone Wars) and Shane is down for his much needed nap, I will finally sit and write a little about our trip to the Dominican.

Oh, you may wonder why I am home...probaly not hard to guess though. Shane has picked up Nicholas' eye infection. Nicholas and I were all ready to go this morning and then I went and woke up Shane to get him ready, had one look at his half open eye oozing with gooze and an angry reddish colour and knew we weren't going anywhere.

So yes...the trip. This is my third time to the Dominican Republic, I'm thinking I must like it there! First time to Puerto Plata but truth is, we did not once leave the resort except the one afternoon we walked to the shopping centre down the road but still within the compound of a group of resorts. The resort was absolutely fabulous, especially for families. Children of all ages were all having the times of their lives and the staff totally dedicated themselves to ensuring every guest was happy and having fun. Our resort was Holiday Village Golden Beach. Nothing fancy but still fabulous. Although the beach was not the white sand that I typically seek out on our vacations, it was vast and almost empty! And the walk into the ocean was complete golden sand and soft on the feet. Perfect. We didn't spend a whole lot of time on the beach simply because it was sooo hot and there wasn't much for protection for the boys. But we had a couple dips in the ocean and of course, a sand castle was built. Most of our time was spent in and around the pools. Something different about this Holiday Village is they have the only wave pool in all of Dominican Republic. Nicholas and I were totally loving it! Lots of fun! As I was hoping, by the end of the week, Nicholas was doing really well in the water and very comfortable swimming in deep water with his water wings. And like most kids, I think he would spend every moment of the day in the pool if he could. Shane was loving the water as well and had so much fun up and down, up and down, the one kiddie slide in the pool.

We had great weather although I think Johnathon would like to say it was too hot at times...but that is hard to say when you live in winter conditions for what seems half the year! So, as much as he would like to say it...I don't think he would! But yes, it did get quite hot at times so each afternoon, Johnathon would take Shane to the room for his nap and Daddy would enjoy the couple hours of down time of reading and resting in the A/C. Nicholas would usually go to the Kids Club for a couple of hours and Mommy would enjoy a little time by the pool with a good book and some fruity, yummy drink in hand.

The evening entertainment was wonderful too. Each night around 730pm, they would start with a kids show. Lots of interaction with the kiddies, fun songs and games and entertainment. Of course, it would always include the Holiday Express song that I think we heard oh, maybe 100 times minimum while there...and quite honestly, never did we tire of it. Very catchy...and the kids and adults alike loved it. That and the Chocalata song they sang and danced too regularly. Lots of fun! I realize now too that Nicholas is more like me than I thought. For a little guy who sure can talk the ear off any one, there was no way we were getting him up on that stage when there were opportunities for the kids to do so. I sure hope he grows out of some of that shyness.

A GREAT family trip!

well, we had one week of not being sick

...thankfully, that week was our weeks vacation in Puerto Plata.

I'm sure it will be no shock when I say that we are all sick again at the Hash house. Unfortunately, Nicholas has the worst of it. He woke up Saturday seemingly fine and then not long into the day, he started getting warm and not feeling well and parked himself on the couch for most of the day. Poor little guy spent most of the day sleeping and being feverish. Later that night, his fever got pretty high and I asked Cheryl how high would a fever have to be for her to take her kid to the hospital. She said 104. Nicholas was 102-103 so we got him cooled down, medicated and it didn't take long for his fever to reduce and then slept through the night. Phew! But it didn't end there...Sunday, he wasn't feeling the greatest but lots of improvement. I noticed his eye was getting pretty red and as the day progressed, BOTH eyes were red and itchy. I took him to the clinic but it was closed already...then we went to Emerg which was jam packed and a 4 hour wait! We decided on talking to the pharmacist who gave us antibiotic eyedrops which helped through the night and then Johnathons plan was to take Monday off and take Nicholas to the doctor...which he did...even while there, he started running another fever. But why?? Why all these fevers, we just couldn't figure it out. Turns out Nicholas has a double ear infection, thus the fevers, which he never gave one indicator to us about. Both eyes infected as well..and he has meds for that as well and contagious until about lunchtime so Mommy is home with him today. Last night, I just couldn't resist and crawled right into his little single bed with him and snuggled with him through the night. Our poor Sticks has had quite the go of it this year. I can only hope that it stops here and Shane doesn't pick up the eye infection.

So, that is the worst of it. The rest of us are battling colds. I don't think Shane's nose has stopped running since December! And both Johnathon and I are fighting our own cold battle....his ammo is Nyquil, mine Cold FX. Results unknown as of yet but I do have to admit this Cold FX seems to do wonders...although you can still feel the head cold down deep...no extra symptoms have started and nothing is worsening. It is very hard to explain actually but I think I have to say Yay to the Cold FX.

I know I have not posted about our trip yet...I totally plan on doing so. I have lots of pics I want to put into an album. We had a great family vacation and I want to share and get those pics posted shortly. Between the mountain of laundry I am still tackling and housework, working, the nice weather and wanting to be outdoors and most importantly, my sick family, I simply haven't taken the time.

Yet another thing on the to do list!

nicholas' fifth birthday

Our little man, Nicholas, turned one on April 1st...no joke, he really did! 5 whole years! One word - Wow. His birthday this year fell on a Wednesday so we celebrated at home that evening with his favourite, cheese pizza and cake! And then the following Sunday, we held his party at Airzone with friends and family.

Thankfully, we did plan for the Sunday because that week was full of sickness...once again! All was well on April 1st with Nicholas but that night, when Johnathon and I were heading up to bed, Nicholas woke up and threw up all over the bed. Did not see that coming! That continued on through the night, moving from his bed to Syds bed to his bed...changing sheets, jammies, washing up. Poor little guy. The next day, he was done with the puking and really just sat around or slept all day. Then the third day, full on fever! All in all, he wasn't well again until the day of his party and even then, he refused cake so it was pretty obvious he wasn't 100%.

But a great time was had by all!!! And we thank all of you that came out to celebrate.

This past year has been all about Wall-E and now Star Wars. In fact, my son fancies himself a young Jedi. It has also been the year that Nicholas began JK and is doing very well. He now has a best friend whose name is Chase. Nicholas' favourite things are his Star Wars toys, in particular his three light sabers and his Clone Wars helmet. I'm not entirely sure what possessed me the day I let him watch the Clones Wars animated movie. Our lives have been forever changed because of it!!

With all the sickness that has rotated through the four of us here since December, we have decided to take a last minute trip to the Dominican (Puerto Plata) while we all are...dare I say it....healthy! I'm hoping a week of playing in the sun will rid any left over 'sickies' and we will come home to enjoy the Spring sick-free.